How to Talk to Kids About Real-World Topics

By Lydia Chan

Being a parent is challenging, especially in today’s world. Kids are bombarded with all kinds of media influences, parents are often juggling work and home, and it can be tough to cut through all of the “noise” in the world to impart parental wisdom in a meaningful and impactful way. Helping your kids make healthy choices and modeling the behaviors you want to see can take time and perseverance. Realabilities comics can help aid in this process, particularly if you have a child with special needs.

Promote Ongoing Communication

Many parents make the mistake of thinking they can have one-and-done “talks” with their kids about big picture topics like avoiding drugs, eating healthy, or staying safe online. In reality, to be effective, tough topics need to be woven into an everyday pattern of open and honest communication, especially for special needs kids. This means asking leading questions, letting your kids talk, and actively listening to what they say. Bring up current events and ask their opinion. The Child Mind Institute recommends watching TV together and discussing the content. Ask your kids questions like, “What would you have done in that situation?” or “Why do you think that character acted the way he did?” The feedback will give you insight into numerous areas of your child’s life.

Creative an Open Environment for Discussion 

Let your kids know there’s no topic that’s off-limits. Be willing to talk about issues like bodily autonomy and body image, bullying, cyber-safety, academic integrity, and even racism, sexism, political agendas, and issues impacting our planet, like sustainable living. In addition to big topics, also discuss everyday things like healthy eating and exercise strategies, and stress management. Not only does this approach give you the opportunity to encourage independent thinking, but you can also explain and impart your own values in the process. Be sure to adapt your approach to your children’s age and interests.

Talk About the Future 

Encourage your kids to think about and talk about the future. What excites them? What scares them? What role do they see themselves playing in our future society? Let them know what shaped your educational and career path, and help them start thinking about what they might like to do in the future. If you’ve ever thought about continuing your own education, involve your kids in the process. For example, if you have a passion for business and want to move into management, enroll in an online business management or marketing degree program and demonstrate how what you’re learning in class can be applied in your everyday work life. When kids can make the connection between passion, education, and career, it can be easier to design their own path.

Model the Behavior You Want to See

According to Healthy Children.org, if you want your kids to be respectful, engaged members of society, set an example through your own actions. This is especially important when it comes to how we treat other people. Encourage a loving acceptance and appreciation for the differences of others, along with a willingness to look at every person as a fellow human being worthy of love and respect. For children with special needs, encourage autonomy, provide opportunities for personal growth development, and talk about ways in which they can advocate for themselves, and for others.

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